kuch to log kahenge, logonka kaam hain kehna

Society - what does it mean? It is supposed to be a group of people, large or small, living in communal harmony, & following a particular set of ideologies, cultures, religion & beliefs. Society is to bring different people closer, make the earth a better place to live. Society is to maintain equality, be it between people of different religions, caste or creed, or be it between man & woman.

Then why does our society frown upon a boy & a girl having a healthy relation of friendship? Why is it that people frown & whisper, when hey see a boy & a girl talking, or walking together, or on a two-wheeler? Is it only the right of married couples to do all this?

When a boy & a girl are seen together, people always assume that, they are having an affair, which is considered bad or taboo!! And what if they are in a wonderful relationship called ‘love’ – what goes of their (the people’s) father’s?

People try to be modern & try to be 21st century people. You have to change your attitude, to be modern. You don’t become citizens of the 21st century just by wearing fancy clothes, by shopping at malls, going to multiplexes or by eating at Mc D’s or Pizza Hut!!

People should accept that, opposite sexes attract each other. And that a guy & a gal can just be friends. In fact, no matter how close you are to your male friends, you are always closest to your female friend. – That’s a fact, accept it or not.

And even if two people are more then friends & are in love with each other, what’s the big deal? More than half the marriages in society have love as their foundation. And love starts with friendship!!!!

Then comes the question of “Social Morality”. Who says there shouldn’t be any social morality, but it should be there where it is most needed. Yes, social morality should be implied if a guy is eve teasing a girl, troubling her, harassing her mentally as well as physically & vice – versa.

But the truth is that, no one cares a damn, when a girl is molested in front of their eyes!!

Don’t restrict two friends or two lovers. Make this place an open sky for them to fly. WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!!!

And for all you friends & people in love, if people frown at you, pity them. Because they are missing something wonderful that you have.

And if they get on your nerves, just ignore them, ‘coz they are people, they are going to say something –

Kuch to log kahenge, logonka kaam hain kehna !!
Chodo bekar ki baton ko, kahi beetna jaen raina !!